Gripes About The Opposite Sex

Last night, my patience was severely tested. We were having relationship talk at work and it didn't help that a female I was interested in said some of the craziest things I've ever heard. The conversation pissed me off so bad that I had to write this blog.


The female I was interested in completely turned me off when she said she shouldn't have to do anything in a relationship, except show up. When I asked her to elaborate, she said that she shouldn't have to open doors, pull out chairs, cook, drive, take out trash, or anything physical when she has a boyfriend. Obviously, she felt she could do work in bed, but that's it. Then, she went on to say something to the effect of,' if I have a man, he should pay my bills too.' Clearly, you can understand my reaction. You already know, I gave her the business.

I exploded on her. Saying that it was women like her that make it hard for good women to find good men. You sound like a gold digger who didn't get everything you wanted from your daddy and want us men to compensate for it. A gentlemen should open doors and all of that good shit for you, but because its expected, but because he likes you enough to want to do it. What kind of woman wants a man to take away all of her independence?

I went on asking why she thought having a man fully support her was the way to go. Before she could answer, I told her that she was lazy and didn't really know what real men wanted. She told me that real men wanted some one to boss around. That statement made me wonder why I was ever attracted to her. Then, I remembered her physical appearance. Pardon me, the horn dog in me came out. But I digress.

I've never heard of a man wanting a woman that couldn't bring anything to the table. For any woman who thinks like the girl from my job, here's some advice. Men want good looking and intelligent women. She can be sexy and feminine, she should also be able to be one of the guys. If you gfuys go out to eat, when the check comes, reach for your purse. He's not going to let you pay, but it shows that you're willing to if you wanted to. If he puts the key in to unlock the passenger door for you, lean your ass over and unlock his. Why? Because if you're looking for a gentleman, act like a lady.